I'm having the same damn conversation I always have about men and relationships and it dawns on me!
The reason I am the way I am is because I have awesome male friends. All the emotional support and stability that most women get from having a boyfriend, is the support I get from my male friends. Most men see women as an after thought because male friendship is much more loyal than female friendship. Which is exactly why I'm so stable. It all makes so much sense. I love my homegirls but lets face it... loyalty is DEAD!
Male bonding is gay but women aren't loyal. I don't feel like my girls have my back BUT I know for a fact if a nigga hit me my boys will murder him. A woman will throw you under a bus for some dick & a happy meal. That's why women need men in some capacity to balance everything.
I just don't need a boyfriend because I have friends that are boys who hold me down emotionally, mentally & spiritually & them hoes they handle the rest LOL!
