Selective Slutting

I don't consider myself a "good girl". And I only know 2 honest to God good girls. Other than that.. I know sluts. Slutting isn't horrific it's just not being a virgin. Most women have cheated, lied, flirted or slept with someone they will NEVER tell anyone they ever looked at. It's a fact!

Selective slutting is choosing who you slut with for example, some women only slut with athletes (if I do I like tackles NO skinny men), some women slut with greeks (this one time...), some women slut with guys who are dangerous (I can't think of anything), some women just slut with who ever. The shade/judgement that comes from "slutting" is male based. Men pretend they want virgins and shun women for being sexual so in turn women shun women. Men form the basis of all communication YET women refuse to re-write the books... I AM FEMINIST hear me roar! I write my own rules and make my own books... READ ABOUT ME! What's the difference between a hoe who pretends to be a virgin and a hoe who tells you she's fuckin?? One isn't hiding, the other is a LIAR!

In my line of slutting the selection process is 90% mental. With the exception of B.B.U which is also why you should never give a dumbass a chance. I enjoy puzzles.. The inner workings of a man BUT only if he's attractive. Being selective isn't always about physical appearance, but most times it is. Most women assume other women are sluts because she sleeps with someone you'd never sleep with.. or something of that nature. When truth is everyone I know has around the same number... Ya'll really need to cut that judge shit out.. cause they jury says we're all the same... Some are just more selective than others!

So yeah just cause you only fuck lames with no money and we out chea GOAL digging.. Don't be mad at us be mad at your focus boo!

At least own it

Jenna Jameson is a boss bitch. She owns her brand. Most women no matter what they do... don't own their brand. Jenna controlled who she did when she was in porn, she controlled all her publications & she got about 80% of all the profit from her films. Some people will say she's a hoe yada yada blah blah BUT how many hoes do you know that fuck for status??? At least Jenna makes money!

Most women don't own shit. They don't own themselves, their sexuality, their minds, their ideas or their money. How many times have you spent money on something because of someone else?? I am guilty! I'm not saying all women should be porn stars. I'm saying more women should OWN themselves. Most chicks don't want to own anything. They'd rather exist. It's sad really.

People won't be who I want them to be... the lack of substance in the world amazes me. People who never read or even keep up with current events have the loudest most vocal opinions. And women are the worst. My girlfriend was talking about how much shade hoes throw.. "but they still got them hair show "LV" bags and "Chanel" earrings"...  It's funny how women let things make them and most times its FAKE things...

Own yourself!

Stupidity or Selfishness?

All too often Men hide behind Stupidity as the reason we are hurting people in our lives that care about us. More than often its an excuse. I dont think i have ever really been ignorant or stupid, i just have played that way so i didnt have to take accountability for my actions. Other times ive straight up said that Im selfish and leave it up to people to still deal with me. I admit I do dumbshit not caring but its because I choose to be that way, not because I have to.

Hiding behind the fact that Im not completely ready to let go of selfish ways. Am I ready to be everything that any 1 woman needs me to be. Everything Ive been through wether my fault or that of one of these blog vixens make me a lil hesitant. I have hardly ever been one to place blame on others for my actions. Attention too little and you feel neglected, too much drives us mad...And at some point I unknowingly became an attention whore. Im just learning that at somepoint you have to be able to pass on the attention someone else is giving you. Ill never be settled or have someone put their complete faith in me if i keep being a puppy to whoever's hand is in front of me.

I tell the women i deal with in advance how I am, but it doenst make shit any better. Women rarely deal with niggaz that they dont see a challenge in. No woman wants a nigga that she can completely run over unless its one she's running over while digging deep in his deep ass bank account. Some see niggaz that say they aren't ready as a challenge. They often think they will be the ones that make that nigga ready. Honesty ahead of time is coo, and I feel like at least i let you know what you were getting into, but in the back of my head i Know that women have some reasonable expectations that they can often change a mans mind from his original agenda.

Fact is if you deal with someone long enough regardless of how you started, then eventually feelings will get involved. Who experiences them first is up in the air, but once it happens you have a responsibility to either let go, or reevaluate what yall mean to one another or reemphasize that you dont want to go anywhere with it.

So No nigga is completely ignorant of the dumb shit we do. Some just choose to play Dodgeball with this thing called love. Some just avoid getting hit with your heart longer than others. Some will Chunk the Deuce as soon as they see you aiming your heart their way. I vow to not be so stupid with the way I handle peoples feelings and will always at least be honest.

The Answer is Im not Stupid, I just need to work on my Selfishness!