How Many Ways Can I say No?

I laugh at this shit often but its really not funny. People really dont respect their vows and maybe the number one reason why i am terrified of commitment in a world full of selfish People. A lot of the women I have been encountering are full of shit and out for themself and what they can get in the moment. Ive asked this woman to respect her vows and leave me the hell alone. I still dont see why the hell after 4-5 years she wants me in her life so badly. I wont fall into the bullshit. I wont be the person she seeks revenge with. I will not be the one to help her disgrace one of the only forms of respect and purity left. Getting married is the ultimate test of character. If you arent ready for it then please dont audition for the part. At this point i really dont want to answer this lady's texts or calls, because she doesnt hear no. I know that all women arent like her and i dont hold it against all. It just makes me a little more cautious and a little more careful about who i let into my circle of life and who i open myself up to emotionally. But this shit right here is not the groove.This is the same woman who a few blogs ago asked me if i was gay because i didnt want to smash her married ass. yep she feels shes that bad of a bitch that niggaz gay if they dont want her! SMH