I don't like that either

If Lil Wayne wasn't a rapper and he was a regular coke snorting dude, women wouldn't want him.
I've spoken to several women about the type of guys they go for and I find it hilarious. Some girls maybe most like men who have the potential to be wealthy when I say wealthy I mean over 150g's a year. Then there are the always in the club girls, who LOVE always in the club guys but most of those guys are broke and goal-less. [Dating "popular guys" went out with letterman jackets] When I say broke I mean these men are mentally prepared to live life making less than 150gs per year. Men without goals disturb me. Par example "Where do you wanna be in 10 years"; "I just wan have money and I'mma do whatever it takes to get it."

Making money is not a goal it's the end result, you can make money working at McDonalds. Men who say they just wanna make money wind up doing anything for money and people who will do anything... are nasty or dirty or illegal. I don't knock men with outlandish dreams, if they're on a path to make those outlandish dreams come true. I just find it disturbing that men constantly want to project an image of having it all while living with their mothers.

Maybe I'm wrong, maybe some women don't know what they want out of live so being attracted to men with no clue is a good. I just wonder

Kimber Stories

Kimber & I are way too close. I don't think you should tell anyone as much as we tell each other. Kimber's engaged... That's a joke *I told her that to her face*

Last week she calls and says she wants to "hang out" with a guy who is not her fiance... I told her she couldn't. She feeds me some ol he's just a friend but he's so fine bull shit. I tell her again that she can not go hang out with this guy. She told me she called to vent not to get advice. [lol]

She went. She said she'd call me while she was there so she wouldn't be "tempted". She didn't call. I text her... 10 minutes later she calls me...

His ex girlfriend showed up

One day, one sweet day ladies will learn when I say don't do itm don't do it. Short version, they were playing twister [4 play], the ex starts banging on the door and screaming dude tells her to be quiet and not move until the ex leaves... eventually the ex gets tired of knocking on the door & leaves... I hope K learned her lesson but I doubt it.

She was totally neat...

The other day I was reading blogs as I do quite often and I came across this post on http://absolutebrook.com/ about the hair down there.... this is a pretty big block quote but I needed it all:

"in my club you will find a serious variety of all kinds of bikini lines. some girls in the club DONT shave because they dont like the maintenance of it, or the risk of bumbs or ingrown hairs. then there are the girls who prefer to look like a 5 year old and completely shave everything off, bald..no judgement. and then you have gals like myself who line it up all nice like, with just enough hair to cover my pride..hehe. i cant stand the way a bald pussy looks."



I was so hurt. I've had several candid conversations about grooming the cupcake & I think my way is the best way. Kimber dated a guy who liked afros and he also didn't want her to shave her legs dude had issues. I think all that hair is unhealthy, you don't know what's in that bush. Reading what Brooke wrote really made me think... I'm 4'8, I sound like a chipmunk & I'm totally neat... am I some guys sick child porn fetish?? :-/ I feel strange about it now... should I be covering my pride?

The blurred lines of communication

Why do women feel attached to men they don't talk to?? Most guys don't like to talk on the phone. They'd rather text, im, email, or see you in person. Seeing you in person being the last thing. We [women] accept all day texting as a conversation, but how many people were you texting while you were texting him? You can "build" a relationship with anyone via text. So a guy text you every day for 3 months, you have 7 in person convos, maybe 5 phone calls, & possibly a date and thats reason to have sex?? You waited 3 months... when I put it like that you think harder right? I can't lie I've fallen into "the trap" I've grown attached to someone for no solid reason, text conversations are always interesting because you aren't being forced to be creative, most conversations are shallow and redundant. When someone calls you or is qwith you in person they have to devote most if not alll of their attention to you. Texting or typing anything requires so little effort we can do it without looking. The most dangerous thing a woman can do is start talking to a guy when she's not talking to any potential boo candidates. That opens the flood gates. The any man is better than no man theory comes into play and we automatically settle for texting. Just a thought...