The blurred lines of communication

Why do women feel attached to men they don't talk to?? Most guys don't like to talk on the phone. They'd rather text, im, email, or see you in person. Seeing you in person being the last thing. We [women] accept all day texting as a conversation, but how many people were you texting while you were texting him? You can "build" a relationship with anyone via text. So a guy text you every day for 3 months, you have 7 in person convos, maybe 5 phone calls, & possibly a date and thats reason to have sex?? You waited 3 months... when I put it like that you think harder right? I can't lie I've fallen into "the trap" I've grown attached to someone for no solid reason, text conversations are always interesting because you aren't being forced to be creative, most conversations are shallow and redundant. When someone calls you or is qwith you in person they have to devote most if not alll of their attention to you. Texting or typing anything requires so little effort we can do it without looking. The most dangerous thing a woman can do is start talking to a guy when she's not talking to any potential boo candidates. That opens the flood gates. The any man is better than no man theory comes into play and we automatically settle for texting. Just a thought...