Angelica's Answer (My point of view)

Recently this question was asked by a concerned young lady

HOW COME A GUY ALWAYS WANT A LADY WHO ISNT A HOE, BUT WHEN YALL START CHILLIN TOGETHER U NOT GIVIN UP DA COOKIES SO THEY GET MAD, BUT IF U SLEEP WITH THEM THAT FIRST NIGHT R WEEK U A HOE??? I'M TRYIN TO FIGURE MEN OUT...LOST, WHAT OPINIONS PLEASE

Niggaz secretly dont want a lady who isnt a Hoe... Meaning He wants a girl that has the tendencies in her, but the world doesnt know about it. Basically They want that girl they think is an angel in the streets cause they havent heard any dirt on her, but in the back of his head he wants you to be his own personal freak. Of course most niggaz gonna try to smash if you lookin good...

Niggaz dont want someone that the public sees as a heaux or thats too easy to get for the simple fact that most dudes are INSECURE. "IF I GOT HER THAT EASY, WHO ELSE IS TYPE SHIT" Some just handle that not the first night rejection better than others. Id be a lie if i said I dont get a lil pissed when i cant have it when i want it. Especially if we connected on a raw physical attraction and not the ( grew on each other over time type of thing) You know within a few minutes of meeting someone if youd let them smash..

Truthfully i know right away when meeting someone where to categorize them...You gonna do an initial back ground check whether u wanna admit it or not before chilling with that person for the first time anyway. So i already know if I would wife you, whether im gonna chill and feel you out, whether you just gonna be a jumpoff, or that you on the same shit and we just gonna be smash buddies.

What caliber nigga are you dealing with? ask his intentions. If you dealing with an nigga with inegrity he'll let you know..Me myself id tell you chill i wanna get to know you, or i just wanna fuck. If our ideals dont match up coo deuces no bad feelings, and ill still speak and be cordial when i see you.

Its 2009 niggaz betta stop lying about their motives..its got a lotta jumpoffs who will let u hit and keep it movin.

Im not gonna categorize you as a heaux because you gave me what i want when i wanted it, cause shit u could say the same about me. If a nigga gone call you a heaux cause u did what both of you wanted at the time then he a heaux. Im to grown to play games and i know exactly where i wanna be with you before we pop it off. whether its you being a one nighter, a constant jump off, or someone i wanna get to know eventually even wife (we just gone smash now) lol but you will get the truth outta me

I can respect ya mind if u dont wanna rip immediately. If we not married its sinning regardless, so fuck it why wait if u know u wanna be with em... No waitin period makes it right anyway. The thing is are you dealing with a bitch nigga thats gonna lie then later change his motives and outlooks on you because u gave him what he wanted?

Real Niggaz Stand Up.